Breckenridge

Phoebe took us on a little mountain town tour up around Breckenridge yesterday. The weather was perfect, traffic was light and we had a mafia staff car rental (BMW X7) to navigate the rocky road across the continental divide between Breck and Como through the Pike National Forest. We had a great time learning how to put the wheels up and down. That whole area is really beautiful country and we nearly timed the Aspen change just right.

If you’ve ever been up there you know most of these mountain towns are very similar tourist trap-type venues. But they make a great stop for lunch on the way home from a fun drive in the high country. I’ll be heading back in the truck soon to check out some stuff further off the beaten path.

You can see forever on a clear day up here. It’s close to 10 miles to Indian Mountain on that view across Como.
Rocky Mountain Way -Triumph cover

Phoebe’s Engaged!

Probably should have posted this a couple weeks ago when we first heard, but couldn’t get any pics to go along with it. On a related note, One of Tanner’s friends just got married, so we’ll go with that for illustrative purposes. He’s wearing the light-colored hat in the middle back.

Texas in the Spring

…is just beautiful – at least the hill country of Mason county is, fer sure. I got to see maybe .001% of the state on the way down there last weekend. Maybe another .002% tooling around Mason for a few days, but it must’ve been the best part of the whole state, from what I saw. There are of course small towns everywhere all across the country. But I doubt many are real small towns the way Mason is.

That’s my girl!

Rest of the tourist trip pics are on this page.

The Lone Star Gang

Now that I’m getting vaccinated and the pandemic is starting to let up(?), I’ll head south next month for a visit with the Texas clan. That blue Dodge needs a new home, after I became unable to work on it a few years ago. The diesel pickups are nice, but they are expensive to maintain if you’re not doing your own work.

That hat’s gettin’ old.

Texas Xmas

One of Phoebe’s pics from yesterday made a rare journey into my computer:

I think Tanner found something he likes better than beer!

Nice Buck!

Looks like going to high school with all the cowboys at Meade left Phoebe with a big ‘ol country streak in her.  My hunting days as a boy growing up in PA were short and unremarkable.  Glad to see Phoebe passing me up in ways I never imagined.

Can’t wait to see what that guy tastes like!

Phoebe's Moved to Texas

Mason, TX – to be specific.  It’s a small town of a little over 2,000 people about 120 miles north of San Antonio.  Mason started out back in the day, as a German settlement.    Work on the pipelines here in Colorado ran out for Tanner, so they are going back to TX for the time being, where he has another job waiting to start next month.  I imagine they are somewhere around halfway to Mason at the time of this posting, with Tanner towing the camper and Phoebe following in her VW.  Good luck kids, and come back soon!

And take care of my little girl!

Tanner

We’ll need to have a little discussion about that hat.  Welders from Texas are only allowed to wear Trump hats around here as long as they are Phoebe’s friends.  

On 2nd thought, I think I like it like that, in this pic at least!  

Phoebe's Off the Payroll

Well, not exactly – she still lives here. But she is working for Bed Bath & Beyond, for going on 2 months now. Her first job about a year ago was part-time for Mc’Donalds and lasted all of three weeks.

Feeb

Commencement 2015

Scroll to the bottom of the grad pic page to see Phoebe’s pics from the 2015 Mead HS Commencement ceremony:
Grad Pic Page

Grad Laughs
We got REALLY lucky with the weather. It was near perfect all through the ceremony – no wind, overcast, mild (low 60s) with sun trying to peek through from time-to-time. Then the skies opened up with a torrential downpour by the time we were in the car leaving the parking lot. We headed south on I25 for Go Fish in Broomfield and had a nice sushi lunch to cap off graduation day for the old folks. Of course the girls continued the festivities at parties around the neighborhood later in the evening. We’ll have our turn hosting that activity here at 5712 next Saturday.

Phoebe est Malade

27 Dec:  She came home sick Christmas eve and now daughter #1 holds the record ( by far) as the family member to get the sickest EVER. She’s been in the Lafayette Good Sam’s ICU for the past 36 hours, with the flu AND strep, on broad spectrum antibiotics, about to go into emergency surgery to remove “something.”  She went into septic shock after her immune system was apparently overwhelmed.  Thought we might lose her last night.

28 Dec, day three of Phoebe’s 2014 Xmas ordeal.  She’s doing better, but not out of the woods yet.  For the 2nd time we’ve been told she does not have the flu.  Apparently there is some issue with the flu  causing uncertainties in that realm of disease management this year.  First she doesn’t have it, then she does, then she doesn’t again.  Sheeesh.  The Ear/Nose/throat specialist, Dr. Armstrong removed her tonsils late Thursday afternoon and did some exploration to try and find the infection’s source, no luck.  The good news is she is stabilized and the antibiotics seem to be working.   Another CT scan and ultrasounds were done yesterday.  Today they plan to do an thorocentesis  on the fluid in her chest to check that.

By Sunday afternoon (today) the ICU attending physician, Dr. Bodini says he did not like the looks of the thorocentesis, so they inserted drain tubes in both sides of her chest and took more x-rays.  The day nurse is saying she is positive for flu (again) and strep (quick test).  No explanation for why we don’t have a definitive answer on exactly what she’s come down with yet, except that it is obviously some kind of very bad infection.  She is being kept sedated.

So at the end of the day, the good news is she’s not trying to die on us.  Bad news is she will likely spend at least the next week in ICU recovering…

29 Dec:  Another CT scan this morning and basically no change in her condition – which is good.  Respirator oxygen levels are down (good), with minimal pain and blood pressure meds being administered.  She is still being kept sedated.

30 Dec:  She looked alot better when I left the hospital last night – not all swollen and puffy.  This afternoon they plan to insert another drain tube in her lower back to get a pocket of fluid that can’t be reached with the chest tubes.

31 Dec:  The patient continues to improve, albeit VERY slowly.  She’s been conscious from time-to-time and communicating with us and the staff by nodding her head.  They tried stopping the respirator this morning, but she was still unable to breathe on her own.  Lab results are finally in and it turns out she has the flu and THREE strains of bacterial infection found in the tissues removed last Thursday afternoon:  Staph, Strep and something called fuso bacterium nucleatum.  Sheesh.

She’s been put on a different antibiotic, supposedly one of the most potent we have.  There is no prognosis at this point.  It’s a day-to-day evaluation.  She should continue improving on her way to a full recovery.   Things are looking up, but not nearly quickly enough, IMHO.

1 Jan 2015:   I’m told no need to worry (right) but she had a fever last night and respirator o2 needed increased from 30 to 45%.  Plan for today is another CT scan (that’ll make 4, IIRC) focusing on suspect areas around her throat and upper chest.

Phoebe’s first day of 2015 ends up pretty grim as far as I can tell.   They had to turn the oxygen back up and she still cannot breathe on her own, albeit longer than the first try yesterday.   Today’s CT scan revealed another pocket of septic fluid in her chest that cannot be reached with any of the three presently inserted drain tubes. So tomorrow they will add a fourth. She appears to be in quite a bit of discomfort during her brief waking periods, trying unsuccessfully to cough before she gets another shot of pain med and drifts out again. She wants desperately to communicate with us, but can’t. Poor kid.

2 Jan: She is really struggling to cope with her situation. We have a picture board used to communicate, and she repeatedly points to the one that says “I want to go home.” But she still cannot breathe on her own, having painful pseudo coughing spells where she is trying to cough, but can’t. Today I learned the reason she is still on breathing support is because the infection spread throughout her body including her lungs, so now she has pneumonia. The only things she has going for her is she is young and she is in the right place. The staff at Good Sams has been terrific. They are doing a wonderful job taking care of her.

3 Jan:  Another CT scan was taken late this afternoon.  Swelling now seems under control and diminishing since yesterday, but she continues to be feverish, and remains sedated, due mostly I believe to difficulty and pain related to coping with the breathing tube.  One of the nurses noted drainage from the first two chest tubes had slowed considerably, so removing them was on the table.  There was also talk of having her sit up and possibly get out of bed with assistance, and discussion of the  criteria or conditions for removing the breathing tube at some point hopefully in the very near future.

4 Jan: Phoebe’s ICU activities today consisted of assessments and maintenance. Breathing is improving, so they will consider attempting an “extubation” in the morning if that still looks good. The swelling around the throat and neck that threatened to cut off her trachea all last week has subsided considerably. Infection drainage from the first two drains is way down so they may come out as well. Of course the antibiotic is continuing, but blood pressure support medication was removed, and she is still being sedated most of the time. She remains feverish to the point of needing a machine-cooled pad to hold her temperature to a safe level.

It looks like tomorrow may be the day she turns the corner.

5 Jan: The corner does certainly seem to be turned today! Fever is down, meds are down and she is up – lucid and communicating. Antibiotics are reduced. There is some formula the infectious disease specialist uses to determine those levels, but it is going in the right direction. She is still getting regular doses of Tylenol and Phentonol for pain. She is being slowly weaned off breathing support. This is a risky step that again, uses some formula determined by the doctor. There remains an issue with a pocket of fluid too close to her spine to tap that remains unresolved. it is the only blemish on what I’m characterizing as our first really good day since the ordeal began.

I expect a determination to remove the breathing and feeding machines any day now. Hopefully she will be back home with us to complete her recovery by the end of the week.

6 Jan: mostly good news today! Breathing tube and two chest drains are out. She is talking oK (f-bombs and all), but has the worst cough and chest congestion I have ever heard. Feeding tube will probably come out tomorrow. Dr. Johnson, infectious disease specialist, remains concerned Phoebe continues running a low grade fever. They expect to keep her in the ICU at least through the end of the week. Today we also learned that when she is eventually discharged she will continue on an intravenous antibiotic for some time at home. Michelle has been staying at the hospital all day and most of the night – overnights as well the whole first week or so. I made an extra trip today to fetch eyewear. TV time all day every day, now that she’s out of the woods.

7 Jan: Today the first two (of 4 total) chest tubes and the feeding tube came out. She still needs oxygen, but breathing well on her own. She is doing breathing exercises and starting a little physical therapy consisting of simply getting out of bed with assistance and shuffling around the room with a walker for a minute or two. She is very weak and frail from the ordeal, but in good spirits, now that she can talk and text. They did another CT scan to assess conditions for removing the remaining drain tubes. Preliminary opinions seem to indicate at least one if not both will be removed tomorrow. If that happens she would be moved to an intermediate care room. We can’t get any firm estimate, but I’m thinking she might be coming home this weekend.

8 Jan:  Today Phoebe had the last two chest drains removed and moved out of the ICU to a regular room.  She is still very weak and not allowed to get out of bed without assistance, but seems otherwise none the worse for wear at this point, despite losing 10lbs. from her already too skinny frame (IMHO).  They are telling us she needs physical therapy after two weeks in bed.  I’ll be expecting her to be discharged from the hospital any day now.  We got her a new puppy.

10 Jan: Phoebe was rumored to have been ready for discharge today, but it didn’t happen. The infectious disease specialist wants another white cell count before they let her go. Maybe tomorrow.

Megan Came to Visit

And it took less than half a day for them to get into trouble.  Juvenile delinquent friends obviously tend towards this propensity, but then again teenage girls are from all indications I see, borderline sociopaths in many cases anyway.  Put two of them like that together (Phoebe and Megan) and the stage is set.

So they decided to disappear in the middle of the night ostensibly to visit Phoebe’s boy toy Dom, who claimed to be having another one of his “episodes.”  I just hope he’s not really suicidal.  When the boys get unstable too, all bets are off.  Why does raising kids seem to be so challenging for so many (other) people?  I’ll take a WAG and put it on stupid parents.  They either had kids too early and/or had too many of their own issues to sensibly add kids to the mix.  Add it to the list of things I find rather annoying when other people’s stupidity infringes on my world.

Batwoman Loses Her Wheels

Phoebe stayed home from school sick today.  Then ran out in the car somewhere mid-morning.  Schoolwork (assignments) is starting to show up missing again.  How is someone who needs to stay out partying all night and burning through $50 worth of fuel every week ever going to manage?

Game over.